Couple issues: 13 questionnaires and rating scales

Couple questionnaires are psychometric tools that assess dyadic adjustment, relationship satisfaction and sources of conflict. They help quantify the quality of the relationship and guide the therapeutic work.

Marital Satisfaction Inventory

MSI-R

Marital Satisfaction Inventory (MSI-R)

The MSI-R is a multidimensional questionnaire designed to assess the affective and functional aspects of a marital relationship. It identifies areas of satisfaction and dissatisfaction in the relationship, such as communication, conflict, sexuality, finances, and other domains essential to the couple. It is particularly used in the psychological assessment preceding couples therapy.

150 questions~30 minAdults in a relationship
Dyadic Adjustment Scale

DAS-32

Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS-32)

The Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS) is a tool used to measure the relationship quality perceived by the partners in a couple. The test assesses several domains of dyadic adjustment, including satisfaction, consistency of opinions, emotional well-being and overall harmony in the relationship.

32 questions~20 minAdults in a relationship
Golombok Rust Inventory of Marital State

GRIMS

Golombok Rust Inventory of Marital State (GRIMS)

The GRIMS is a self-report questionnaire designed to measure marital satisfaction and relationship quality within the couple. It assesses different aspects of the relationship, including communication, emotional satisfaction, and the overall functioning of the couple. It is commonly used in clinical settings to identify potential areas of relationship difficulty.

28 questions~10 minAdults, couples
Fear of Intimacy Scale

FIS

Fear of Intimacy Scale (FIS)

The Fear of Intimacy Scale (FIS) is a self-report questionnaire designed to measure the discomfort, avoidance, and anxiety associated with emotional closeness in significant relationships. It explores the difficulty of sharing one's thoughts, emotions, and vulnerabilities with a close person, particularly in an intimate relationship. This tool is useful for assessing interpersonal difficulties, insecure attachment styles, emotional avoidance, and certain couple issues. The FIS does not make a diagnosis on its own, but provides a relevant indicator of the level of fear of intimacy and of emotional openness.

35 questions~10 minAdolescents and adults
Communication Patterns Questionnaire

CPQ

Communication Patterns Questionnaire (CPQ)

The Communication Patterns Questionnaire (CPQ) is a self-report questionnaire that assesses how couples communicate during their conflicts. It distinguishes different communication patterns, such as constructive dialogue, avoidant communication or the tendency to escalate, and helps identify dysfunctional relational dynamics that can undermine marital satisfaction.

35 questions~10 minAdult couples
Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale

KMSS

Kansas Marital Satisfaction Scale (KMSS)

The KMSS is a brief, widely used tool for assessing an individual's overall level of marital satisfaction. It is a simple and quick measure that can be included in a psychological assessment or in couples follow-up to quantify the satisfaction felt in the marital relationship.

3 questions~2 minAdults, couples
Emotional Dependency Questionnaire

EDQ

Emotional Dependency Questionnaire (EDQ)

The Emotional Dependency Questionnaire (also known as the affective dependency questionnaire) is designed to assess the level of emotional dependency in romantic relationships. It includes 23 items divided into 6 clinical dimensions, such as separation anxiety, fear of loneliness, and attention seeking. This instrument is used to identify people who display excessive or dysfunctional affective behaviors in the context of relationships.

23 questions~5 minAdults
Quality of Marriage Index

QMI

Quality of Marriage Index (QMI)

The QMI is a brief self-report instrument measuring the overall quality of the marital relationship. It is widely used in research and clinical practice to detect the level of marital satisfaction and to screen for couples at risk of relationship distress. It targets one partner's subjective perception of the general quality of their marriage.

6 questions~2 minAdult couples
ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale

EMSS

ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale (EMSS)

The ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale (EMSS) is a widely used self-report tool for measuring marital satisfaction and the quality of the couple relationship. It helps identify strengths and areas for improvement within the relationship, thereby helping psychologists assess and support couples in therapy.

15 questions~10 minAdult couples
Relationship Assessment Scale

RAS

Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS)

The Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS) is a self-report questionnaire designed to assess relationship satisfaction in a couple. It is frequently used in clinical and psychometric research to measure the perceived quality of a romantic or marital relationship.

7 questions~3 minAdults in a relationship
Couples Satisfaction Index

CSI

Couples Satisfaction Index (CSI)

The Couples Satisfaction Index (CSI) is a widely used self-report instrument for precisely measuring satisfaction within a couple relationship. Its modern structure is based on a selection of items that capture various key aspects of relationship life, such as communication, affection and overall satisfaction with the relationship. It is available in versions of varying length (4, 16 or 32 items) to suit different clinical and research practices.

32 questions~10 minAdults in a relationship
Satisfaction and Problem Areas Questionnaire

SPAQ

Satisfaction and Problem Areas Questionnaire (SPAQ)

The Satisfaction and Problem Areas Questionnaire was designed within the framework of integrative behavioral couple therapy (IBCT). It explores different aspects of couple life that can be sources of satisfaction or conflict. It assesses the level of satisfaction in 15 relationship areas, such as finances, child-rearing, or sexuality. This tool helps identify the priority areas to address in couple therapy.

15 questions~4 minAdults in a relationship
Intimate Bond Measure

IBM

Intimate Bond Measure (IBM)

The Intimate Bond Measure (IBM) is a self-report questionnaire designed to assess the perceived quality of the bond in an intimate relationship, focusing mainly on two dimensions: the care and the control exercised by the partner. It is often used to analyze interpersonal dynamics and to detect problematic relational patterns, particularly in the marital context.

24 questions~10 minAdults, couples

Frequently asked questions

Should both partners complete the scale?

It is recommended when the setting allows it, because comparing both perceptions highlights the gaps between them and the areas of disagreement that are useful for the therapeutic work.

Do these scales replace the clinical interview?

No. They complement the interview by quantifying certain dimensions, but the analysis of the relational context and the therapeutic alliance remain central.

Can they be used to track change?

Yes. Repeated administration at regular intervals measures changes in satisfaction and adjustment over the course of treatment.

Couple relationships in clinical practice

Relationship difficulties show up as lower satisfaction, recurring conflicts and emotional or sexual distance. They often affect the mood and anxiety of both partners.

Scales help pinpoint the dimensions involved, such as communication, consensus or commitment, and track how they change from session to session. A shared score makes dialogue easier in couples therapy.

  • Distinguish satisfaction from dyadic adjustment.
  • Assess each partner separately.
  • Choose the scale according to the goal of the follow-up.